Soup
Counselling - General
hart caplan

Are feelings facts?

Here, a feeling is, in actuality, a fact. Let me make a stronger claim: all feelings are facts. They are facts in the same way that the table I am sitting at currently is made of wood and that I am a psychotherapist. All are part of the same category of thing we call facts.

Distracted
ADHD
hart caplan

A Critical Review of an adhd classic: Driven to Distraction

But there is a central issue that I have with the literature on adhd, and this is a problem with this book and with the field more generally. My issue is this: why distraction? Or perhaps the question could be asked in the following way: distraction from what?

Announcement - Orange
Counselling - General
hart caplan

Nightingale’s Senior Clinician Matching Assurance (SCMA)

We are pleased to announce that starting on Monday, July 24, 2023, we will be launching a new way that clients will begin their therapeutic relationships with Senior Clinicians (Senior and Directorial Clinicians) at Nightingale Counselling and Research.

Insights, Part V – Client-led Healing

In the previous four posts, we discussed the roles that feelings play, and they are the reason that therapists in a left brain world so often emphasize them as distinct from cognitions and rationality. Feelings can be powerful guides to right action. They often provide critical information in helping to understand what is needed to find resolution to a dilemma.  But feelings so often go unheeded. By amplifying this often muted voice—i.e., feelings—client and Counsellor can learn together—what did you see, what did you come to know, what action needs to be taken. In this sense, the process of therapy is often the process of coming to know and accept that part of the self that we would sometimes rather leave papered over.

This is what client-led healing looks like. It naturally reduces pain and anxiety and fatigue, because those are often the natural consequences of living in a left brain world.

This is what client-led healing looks like. It naturally reduces pain and anxiety and fatigue, because those are often the natural consequences of living in a left brain world. It prevents future harm by tuning into our natural instincts for survival, which help us to recognize the difference between danger/safety. And it creates a feeling of integration with ourselves and with our loved ones, because that is the natural feeling we get when our left and right brains are allowed to be in connection.